PRE: 14 ONLINE JOB/BUSINESS OPPORTUNITIES FOR NIGERIANS IN 2022

Before I start to share these insightful information with you about online opportunities.

This post is more about the important information you must have at the back of your mind as you explore the E-space.

Either you work the 9-5 schedule or you are looking to increase your streams of income or you are currently unemployed, the E-space is a good place to earn pretty cash.

Know these:
Global opportunities abound in the E-space.

First thing is: There are VALID (LEGAL) online job and business opportunities.

Note:

EVERY ONLINE JOB OR BUSINESS THAT DOESN’T INVOLVE THE SELLING/ACQUISITION OF SKILL OR PRODUCTS (digital or physical) IS LIKELY A SCAM AND MAY CRASH ANYTIME SOON.

Read that☝️ paragraph again!

Secondly, don’t be in haste to start earning when dealing with E-space.

The thing to do is to LEARN and do so diligently, IMPLEMENT and then EARNINGs will follow. Any attempt to shortchange the order may mean you’re about to be scammed.

This means that you must be ready and willing to learn. At times you’ll get knowledge freely; other times, you’ll have to pay. Just be open to un-learn, learn and re-learn.

Lastly, know that doing a job or business on the internet means you are dealing with human beings. The internet is merely the medium of transactions. So, you must have something valuable to offer these people for them to give their money to you.

That said, if you’re looking forward to earning online, the next fourteen days will be insightful.

Remember, I’ll be giving you business and job ideas that you you can do as a Nigerian, so believe me, this will be very practical.

See you!

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I Want Party Jollof

I was about two months gone… And it’s our second baby 😁

But this particular pregnancy do me one kind, I can’t lie 😂… No food stayed in my stomach for more than two months.

How I managed to look fairly okay whenever I go out or when I’m in the midst of people is still a wonder.

I could barely contain the smell of oil or pepper or seasonings or any food. If you want me to eat, then give me a food that has no aroma😁

Then, I avoided going out because I felt really light in weight. Any strong breeze could easily blow me off😅

But I had was in the middle of an academic program, a PGDE. I had missed classes for two weekends consecutively and that was not too good.😁

I decided to try all my best to be at my study centre that weekend; moreso, we had C.A. TESTS that weekend so missing tests would not be a good thing.

We had just finished a test and I felt like using the convinience. Around the corner, a group of people gathered in one of the classrooms. They were having a get-together. So they were sharing jollof-rice.

The aroma of their jollof do me bad… imagine ehnnnn, it awoke all the hunger that had been “hungering” me for two months and maybe more 😂

I stood by the wall of the classroom for something that felt like 20hours

The inner battle was strong. Kaiiii…Something kept pushing me to go inside and ask abi beg for rice deni???…haaaaa!

Begi-begi… What will I say happened to me?

The inner struggle was so fierce that I can’t explain how I resisted the strong urge to begi-begi… I sha left the place. (Of which for me to eat in your house normally as a friend must take divine convictions 😅😂)

I returned to my colleagues and told them they were sharing party jollof rice somewhere. They gave me this glance that meant, “and so what?”

Okay o. I decided to sulk alone.

The painful thing is that I know I can cook probably a better delicacy but I can’t dare it. More so, the aroma and taste of party jollof is different😁😆

So, after class, Temi came to pick me and I explained my ordeal to him.

“Cook it now…” He said
I just hissed, “this one doesn’t even know anything”

Laslas, when I won’t stop talking about the aroma, Temi asked me to dress up. He rode us to an eatery so I can satisfy my craving.

Guess what, from the entrance of the eatery, i started to feel nauseated. The aroma of foods had filled the entire place. I could not enter. I begged him to take me back home🤨

Anyway, Temi entered and ordered jollof-rice for us (Eatery jollof is close to party jollof na😛) so I can go and eat it at home.

At last, I still couldn’t eat it😭… But trust my guy, the labor of our heroes shall never be in vain 🤣😂

I thank God it all ended in praises.

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On Accountability 2

-EARN-
The first step to financial Independence is to have a legal source of income

To earn means “to receive something as return for effort and especially for work done or services rendered”. To earn simply means to get paid for a service you render or for selling something.

Why is it important to earn?

💥Earning puts a value or worth to your ability/skill.
💥It validates whatever effort you have put into becoming who you are or what you are doing.
💥It affirms your productivity
💥Earning gives you a reason to want to do more.
💥 It also gives you power to request a service or negotiate a purchase
💥Topmost, earning makes you accountable to people; employer and clients alike

In a time as this when the national economy is not healthy, it is advisable that every legal adults be a legitimate wage earner. And it is important that earning should be legitimate!

It is imperative to have a source of earning no matter how small it may seem.
No matter how much you receive as gifts or allowance; even if it takes care of your needs adequately, ensure that you build a financial security for yourself by earning.

Basically, the first step to financial accountability is to earn. Whether what you earn is commensurate to your effort is another matter entirely but not to earn anything is more dangerous than earning something meagre.

I am Victoria

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In the Light of Motherhood 3

Yeah…so here we are😁😃

This is for the men, the seed sowers😁.

As much as it is possible for you, be present to witness the delivering of your children.

As women of faith, we do not go into the labor room, we go into the delivery room. Why? Labor is not a sign of grace. It is a sign of human travail and strife. Many times, it doesn’t yield commensurately. That said…

Thus, I preach that as much as it lies within your human control, men should be present when their wives are to give birth.

I have heard some men say that they cannot withstand their wives going through pain or they cannot stand the cries of pain. My dear brother, if you can be available and you are not available, you do yourself no good.

Here are the reasons why you must not miss that moment.

💧Your availability gives you the chance to be the first Prophet over that child. You have the privilege to establish divinely genuine covenants over your seed.
💧As the Priest over your home, you have the grace to stand in the gap while your wife is passing through the phase of delivering your child.
💧You get to take charge of the atmosphere spiritually and emotionally. I remember crying of back ache during my first delivery. My husband’s hand gave the soothe that my body needed. I just knew things would not go wrong because he was there.
💧If you are indeed human, your respect for your mother, wife and women will skyrocket by witnessing such a moment.

In fact, for me, after my first delivery, I could only look at my mother in awe. Till now, I constantly feel like I owe her what I cannot be able to repay. The sacrifice of motherhood is large, you only have to be a witness to understand. At some point, I asked my mother how did she survive four births?

💧Watch out for more details of these points and more reasons in the real deal (my book)💃🏽💃🏽

Please make sure every worthy brother gets to read this🙏🏼

Meanwhile, there’s something spicy in the forth part of this series. Watch out for it😁
I’ll be sharing something that happened to me in the delivery rooms.

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In the Light of Motherhood 2

Thanks for the feedbacks concerning the previous post. I’m glad you found it valuable.

Today, I want to hit a point quickly.

After delivery, everything seem to always be about the new born. As women, we suddenly start to forget there are other people in the home who need us. The truth is with every new addition, responsibility has increased.

The truth is things will not be the same again after the arrival of your new born.

Yes! I mean it. The things that henceforth demands for your attention after birthing your child increases and you’re expected to measure up to the increase without breaking down or breaking out.

Your immediate dependants now include: the overtly dependent new-born; Hubby, older child(ren), helps and relatives that stay with you.

Way forward?

💧Be aware that life doesn’t revolve around the new born only. You are accountable to all your dependants in fair proportions.
💧Be deliberate about your relationship with each of them. Let them know that they are as important as the new born.
💧 Do not hesitate to involve each of them in caring for the new born (as much as possible). For instance, my older girl knows knows what to bring the moment baby is to be bathed.
💧Spend your spare moments getting involved with other dependants. For example, helping older children with their assignment means they are not less important.
💧Do not hesitate to do some time alone with your spouse- go for that short lunch or dinner or stroll.

Good morning and happy New week Saints.

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The Light of Motherhood 1

Return unto thy rest, O my soul; for the LORD hath dealt bountifully with thee.
Psalm:116:7

NB: I am not writing about this topic because motherhood is “sharking” me although it’s allowed.😀😃
Instead, there are information I wished I had before embarking on this journey. I researched and asked questions enough but some things were yet hidden. I wish to share on these few things in no particular order of importance. Even if I’m only able to help one person, then I’d feel glad🤓.

Recently, I’ve heard and read about post-partum depression. It’s recently a topic of discourse in public health and I get scared when people share their experiences.

Even though I don’t have such experience, I remembered feeling really anxious when I had my first baby. The feelings of inadequacy threatened until I constantly turned my daughter back to God on the altar of sacrifice as Abraham did insisting in the place of prayers that the child is God’s and not mine.

So, I have thought deeply about it and feel I should lend a voice on how post-partum depression can be avoided totally and/or managed.

What is post-partum depression? It refers to depression that occurs after childbirth. It is an experience that some women have just after delivering their baby(ies).

What causes post-partum depression? The major cause is attributed to the stress that comes with the new routine, internal and external bodily changes and some social factors.

Symptoms of post-partum Depression
The usual symptoms of depression are what we see here only that the experiences are affiliated to the birth process. They include:
✅Anger, rage, or irritability
✅Difficulty sleeping – even when exhausted
✅Feeling “flat” – no strong feelings of either happiness or sadness
Unexplained crying
✅Extreme worrying or anxiousness
✅Intrusive thoughts of serious harm or death coming to the baby
✅Not feeling connected or loving toward the baby
✅A general feeling of “this isn’t what I expected it to be”
Etc…

It is a long read but truly worth your time😚 so please read carefully…

Pregnancy is a truly transformation process. You see, if you are a man, you may never understand the process that goes on in the body of a pregnant woman.

Let me shock you, when you see a pregnant woman, all you see is an oval shaped ball sitting on her abdomen… But meehhhnnn If you know the “rumbling in my Tommy going umbandadabum” going on inside there😃🤪… The tiny creature often kicks like s/he will come out through the kicks😃😁😀 and then the bloating, indigestion, heart burns, etc

Recently, there is this trend: “pregnancy humbled me challenge” and I can truly say that Pregnancy is really humbling. From the nausea to the sickening feelings to the change in appetite to the strange craves to the change in emotions to the sudden blow up of the body to the insomnia to the body aches to the fear of the unknown to the …blablabla😌… Women, you rock!💪

Now let me tell you, the pregnant woman is just counting days and then imagine that after the delivery of the baby and you felt, what a relief but you suddenly move to the phase my Barrister-friend @⁨Olunike Mi⁩ calls fourth trimester😃… post-partum cramps, irregular sleep, sore nipples, sore V-region😃😁… My dear, the stress could be much.

But can depression after delivery be avoided?
YES! And this is my suggestion:

It is the duty of friends and family to rally round the new mother after birth.

As the spouse, family members, in-laws or friend of the new Mum, you have important roles to play:

💧Be available to be a true support system. Let your words and actions show that you are there to lend a shoulder to the new Mum.
💧Volunteer to help with house chores, laundry, going to the market, cleaning the house, etc.
💧 Deliberately visit to help with the baby so that the new Mum can catch some rest. Don’t visit to start gisting except the new Mum wants to gist. Let her know it’s okay to rest while you are around.
💧Ask the new Mum for what she needs help with. Sometimes, we offer assistance on what’s not a prior need for the new Mum.
💧Be empathic. Don’t go ahead body shaming or gender-shaming the new Mum. Show some understanding.
💧Avoid the critical attitude of sizing up the mother’s mother-ing ability; let ur words be kind and please keep ur unsolicited advises too. Statements like, “is this how to carry a baby? Is this how much you sleep? Etc” could dampen the emotion of a new Mum.
💧Give to the new Mum. Spare your time, money, gifts whatever you can afford to relieve the new Mum.
💧 Constantly assure the new Mum that with God’s help, she is adequate to care for the new born.
💧 Pray for the new Mum. Yes. Pray for her that God will guide her through. In fact, in your prayers, God gets to guide u on what to do for her.
💧Put a call through and send a text to check on the new Mum. It goes a long way

…all these mean a lot to the well-being of the new Mum.

I started with this topic because I believe I could have ran into depression also but one thing I’m sure prevented it is that God always give me a strong support system in family and friends for which I’m eternally grateful.

However, I also realize that many people don’t even know that they can contribute to post-partum depression for a new Mum through their deeds and words.

Have you experienced post-partum depression before? How did you get through? I long to hear/read from you💪🏽

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A Clean Heart

Few days ago, in my place of prayers, the Holy Spirit stirred up a concern.

It was specifically for our seeds.

It was a plea for a clean heart. Whether you accept it or not, the moral atmosphere of this present generation is very corrupt.

It is not as if the world as ever been innocent but it is very terrible. For me then, my concern is how will our own children not breathe in this corruption.

The Holy Spirit made it clear that morning. “Except as David cried out, we cry for a clean heart for our children, we may not be able to do much.”

Yea, the only thing that helped Samuel escape the corruption of his immediate environment was that he had a clean heart. Same with Daniel, Joseph, the three Hebrews and their likes.

Dear Parents and Parents-to-be, command that the hearts of your children be made clean by the word and water.

Selah!

This year opens its abundant blessings unto us… Amen

RESPECT other Human Beings!

There is something called human dignity!

Sometimes ago, I was in a public transport and I had an experience that would drive home my main point.

An elderly man wanted to sort out money issues with the driver. In order to make things easier, he proposed to collate the fare of some passengers. I was one of those close to Baba. Two other guys were there.

In no time, Baba as an inexperienced conductor got confused with the balances.

Then one of the guys said, “Baba, you’ll give this girl (referring to me) #100 balance…”

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.eyebrows raised…

“Excuse me, who is this girl?”

You see, we make the mistake of undermining people quite often. We think that because they look or dress a particular way, they should be treated anyhow. This is not right.

Whenever you respect others, what you’ve simply is to respect yourself. Of you’re meeting someone for the first time, use words that connote respect. I do not mean you must use Sir/ma or titles. Just show respect on your words and actions towards them.

Guess what, you never know who you are dealing with. You can make or mar yourself accidentally by having no regards for other people. Every human deserves to be respected just because s/he is human.

Thanks and God bless you.

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A SPICE YOU NEED… 2

Hey there, it’s a pleasant day.

I’m glad to host you here again. Thanks for dropping in.

Still on spicing your relationships especially marital relationship.

For me, no matter how displeased I may be over any issue, nothing softens me than an act or service. So there have been times when I disagree with hubby over something really serious and I just shut myself out.

Oga knows the right button to press o.

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Here is where I’m going, one important spice to add to your well meaning relationships (please note the emphasis) with people is to know the right button to press at the right time. The button I’m talking about is their love language.

Knowing other’s love language helps resolution a lot. It saves you a lot of stress and time. It rings “attention” in the mind of the recipient.

Meanwhile, knowing your own love language is as important as knowing that of others. It helps you to rightly demand for love where due.

There is something that softens everyone. Everyone has a mumu button. You just need yo discover it and know how to press it.

Gary Chapman listed five major love languages of human beings: words of affirmation, quality time, gift, physical touch and acts of service. I believe there could be more. (please find time to read through this book, “The Five Love Languages”)

Know the love languages of your close allies. Use it rightly because this resolves issues faster than you could imagine.

What about those who abuse love languages, we will talk about this too.

In my next post, I hope to talk about “avoiding abuse of love languages”. I believe it’s very important that we talk about it also.

Remain secured!

With Love

Victoria

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